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Your guide to anxiety

Anxiety is a combination of stress (in your body) and worry (in your mind).

Way back in the day, anxiety was designed to keep you safe from danger. But now, stress can be complicated, long-lasting, and can result in a lot of anxiety ‘false alarms’.

   

Is this normal anxiety or do I have an anxiety disorder?

Normal anxiety

Normal anxiety is:

  • temporary and may come and go
  • manageable most of the time
  • in response to something stressful
  • unlikely to interfere with your usual everyday life.

Anxiety is really common with about 10% of people experiencing it in their lifetime.

Fortunately, anxiety is very treatable!

How to manage anxiety

Anxiety disorders

You might be experiencing an anxiety disorder if your anxiety:

  • seems to last a long time/longer than usual
  • feels very intense or overwhelming
  • causes you distress
  • interferes with your everyday life
  • is hard to cope with.

Anxiety disorders can include panic disorders, social anxiety, phobias, and Obsessive Compulsive Disorders.

anxiety Disorders

Want to learn more about anxiety and how to manage it? Check these out!

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Prefer to watch?

Check out some of our videos about anxiety below.

We answer your questions about stress management for teens, dealing with anxiety and insomnia, and breakdown what you should know about panic attacks.

   

Looking for ways to cope with anxiety?

We asked young people on Insta for their best coping strategies. Here's what you said!

You can view more coping strategies here.

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A graphic showing multiple text boxes with the question “What’s your best coping strategy at the moment?” and responses including turning off the news, staying in touch with friends online, setting goals, mindfulness colouring, and spending time cooking with a pet.
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A graphic with text responses to the question “What’s your best coping strategy at the moment?” including watching Netflix with family, staying in touch with family and friends, and meditation.

   

Self-care

Your nutrition, movement, and sleep habits all impact on both your brain and your mental health.

Self-care is about meeting your basic needs so you can be physically and mentally healthy. 

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An infographic titled “Looking after yourself – Eat a well‑balanced diet!” showing healthy eating tips such as drinking water, eating regular meals, limiting junk food, eating fruit and vegetables, and not skipping meals.

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