Teens using drugs and alcohol

Know the facts and get support in order to help your teen manage the risks involved in drug and alcohol use.

   

As a parent, you may be unsure how to protect your child from the misuse of alcohol and drugs

Parenting a teen involves being well informed about the facts and supporting them to manage the risks.

It's hard to know when and how to communicate about this issue and to make decisions about rules and consequences.

Drug and alcohol use among teens

An overview for parents:

  • A national survey found that more than 70% of teens aged 12-17 do NOT drink alcohol
  • Misuse of drugs and alcohol happens when a pattern of harmful use develops over time
  • Misuse leads to impaired judgement and cognitive decline
  • Misuse can also lead to physical, psychological and sexual problems
  • Drug use can lead to arrests and legal proceedings
  • Misuse can result in behaviours that get in the way of relationships, work and study

Types of substances that can be misused

Detailed information including slang names for drugs can be found at the Alcohol and Drug Foundation.

Alcohol (as well as products containing alcohol)

Tobacco products

Inhalants (paint, glue, nail polish, deodorants)

Medications (pain killers, cough medicine, sedatives, stimulants)

Energy drinks

Performance enhancers (steroids)

Illicit substances (amphetamines, cannabis, heroin)

"I try to keep calm and set clear rules about what is and isn't acceptable and why."

- Frankie, parent to 17 year old

What can you do to manage the risks?

Let your child know you care, listen to their concerns and try to remain approachable.

  • Accept that teens take risks in order to learn
  • Find opportunities to discuss the issue in a low-key way
  • Calm conversations will always be more productive
  • Avoid the temptation to exaggerate the dangers - be realistic
  • Be aware of the laws in your State and Territory
  • Be a role model for responsible use of alcohol and drugs
  • Support your child to make their own decision by thinking through the consequences
  • Reassure them that you'll help them if they’ve ever taken something and are not safe
  • Keep alcohol and medications out of the reach of younger children
  • Set clear expectations and consequences for your child about drug or alcohol use
  • In emergencies call Poisons Information 13 11 26 or an ambulance 000 if needed
  • If your child is struggling, help them seek professional support
  • As a parent, you are not alone – contact Parentline in your State or Territory

   

You're not alone in wanting to protect your child from alcohol and drug misuse

There’s support available for parents if you’re looking for information and guidance. Try calling Parentline in your State or Territory for assistance.

Encourage your teen to contact Kids Helpline if they need additional support and somebody to talk to about their concerns. They can give us a call or start a webchat today.

If you are looking for more digital services and resources, check out Medicare Mental Health.

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This content was last reviewed 14/02/2018